Wednesday, 27 April 2011

fitrah cinta

sepanjang perjalanan hidup..terlalu banyak yg dilalui..
adakala terasa ingin putarkan kembali waktu dan memperbetulkan segala...
but thats is impossible..
begitu juga cinta..
terlalu banyak kenangan dan cerita cinta yang aku sendiri watak utamanya..
ada suka dan duka..
dan kelukaan yang dalam tatkala cinta yang dimiliki terlepas begitu sahaja...
adakalanya aku terfikir dimana silapku..dan perlukah aku memutar balik masa hanya untuk memiliki cinta itu kembali..
semakin lama..semakin sukar untukku mengerti..
hanya yang pasti ...
ini lah fitrah cinta..
dan aku sedari..
apabila kita berubah menjadi diri kita yang terbaik..tuhan akan buka laluan untuk cinta yang terbaik untuk hadir dalam hidup kita...
aku hargai kehadirannya dalam hidupku..
mungkin aku bukan untuk nya dan dia bukan jodohku...

fitrah cinta...


* dia bersahaja and tak berlakon baik depan kita..
*kita senang bersamanya dan tak pernah bosan walau sedetik pun..
*dia terima kita seadanya walau apapun kisah silam kita sebelumnya..
*dia sentiasa jujur dengan kita..
*kita senang bekerjasama dengan nya..
*dia memahami diri kita walau seteruk mana pun perangai kita.. dan..
*dia berani tunjukkan kelemahan nya..

mungkin dia jodoh kita..dengar la kata hati...dan berserah padaNya..

aku menemui cinta yang meneguhkan lagi cintaku padaNya...
Semoga aku menemui cinta yang benar2 untukku..

                                                           rya 27.04.2011

Saturday, 9 April 2011

doa-doa cinta

                              Ya ALLAH swt,
Jika aku jatuh cinta,
Cintalah aku pada seseorang
Yang melabuhkan cintanya pada – MU
Untuk mencintai – MU.

Ya ALLAH swt,
Jika aku jatuh cinta,
Jagalah cintaku padanya
Agar tidak melebihi cintaku pada – MU.

Ya ALLAH swt,
Jika aku jatuh cinta,
Izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang
Yang hatinya bertaut pada – MU
Agar tidak terjatuh aku ke ruang semu.

Ya ALLAH swt,
Jika aku jatuh cinta,
Jagalah hatiku padanya
Agar tidak berpaling dari – MU.

Ya ALLAH swt,
Sesungguhnya aku bermohon pada – MU
Untuk selalu mencintai – MU.

                                                                                   rya (09/04/11)

Tuesday, 5 April 2011

Can She Ever Forget Her First Love?

Just sitting around doing nothing make me wonder something...
Do most girls and women married with their first love?

Most said A first love is mostly passion and the second love is much deeper.

When a woman is in love for the first time, she thinks he’s the only one for her and that she has no choice in the matter. Without him, she‘s lost.
When she loves for the second time, however, she knows that there are a lot of other men available to her, but she’s choosing to be with the one she loves because she feels that he is the best one for her.
 The first time, a woman can love a guy simply because he was the first, and for no real reason other than that.  It can be full of fear and insecurity — something that’s fuel for passion, but nothing much more than that.

 The second time around, it’s because she’s able to see his fine qualities and love him for who he is.  She’s loves with all her heart because she knows her man deserves it.

Over time, your first love becomes just another story tucked away in the corner of your mind.  So, for those guys out there, if you’re the one she’s chosen, fear not!  Just concentrate on being the love of her life, and forget about her first love, as she’s probably already done.


Saturday, 2 April 2011

10 signs that may indicate he's not for you..

  1. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wants your relationship to work.
 If you're fixating on his flaws, he's either not the one you want or you're not ready for a serious relationship. Cutting him loose allows you time to grow and gives you the opportunity to meet a guy whose flaws you can embrace -- or at least accept.

  1. You don't trust him.
A small dose of jealousy can be healthy, but if you're hacking into his email account, and going berserk when he goes out without you, something's wrong. If there's something about him that truly warrants your distrust, then perhaps he's not the right one for you.

  1. You avoid conflict at any cost.
Fighting is healthy. And, when done right (in the non-accusatory, rational sort of way), it can be a great way to air grievances, fix problems in your relationship, and come to a deeper understanding of each other. Ignoring problems is not the same as having no problems at all... even if it looks that way.

  1. When you're sad, you don't turn to him for comfort.
When you're a giant ball of tears and snot, do you lock yourself into the bathroom so he can't see you at your worst? If you're worried about scaring him away, one of you isn't ready for total commitment. Mr. Right should make you smile through your tears and be a calming, not stressful, presence.

  1. One of you is struggling with an addiction.
He's sweet. He's exciting. He loves you very much. But he loves his alcohol habit or his weekly gambling fix more. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you can change him or that your relationship will be strong enough to withstand the heartache that addiction will inevitably bring. An addict may be able to change, but he'll do so on his own terms.

  1. You can't really imagine him as the father of your children.
 Ask yourself: Would he make a great parent? Is he financially responsible? Would he be an equal partner in your future together? If you have doubts, he's probably not the one.

  1. Your long-term, non-negotiable goals in life are incompatible.
You want kids; he doesn't. You go to church every week; he's an atheist. He lives in the country and doesn't want to move; you can't imagine ever leaving the city. Superficial differences can be overcome, but differences in basic values are harder to smooth over. Ask yourself: "Would I be willing to compromise on this?" If the answer is absolutely not, you may not be right for each other.

  1. You don't respect each other.
He puts you down in front of your friends and complains about you to his parents. You roll your eyes when he talks because there's just something about him that embarrasses you. A relationship without respect can't sustain itself.

 9. You're not attracted to him.
 Physical intimacy is a hugely important component of a romantic relationship. If he doesn't do it for you, he's probably not your best long-term match.

10. On paper he seems great, but you have this strange feeling...
 Don't ignore your gut. You may get along on a superficial level, but if your instincts are telling you he's not the one for you, listen. That little voice inside your head does not lie.

pemandangan senja di sabah...

the beautiful sunset i've ever seen...

Love and Marriage Explained beautifully

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders...may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one.. but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "..this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person.."

*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.. this is marriage."

the true frenz are...

A true friend never walks away
A true friend always stays
A true friend looks out for you

A true friend will guard your secrets
Likes a precious gift
A true friend is there for you
To give you a helpful lift

A true friend tries to make smile
Tries to replace that frown
They may not always succeed
But they rarely let you down

These arms for you are open
This heart for you does care
And when I think you need me
I’ll try to always be there

I’ll listen to your fears
I promise not to laugh
Comfort your falling tears
I’ll make this friendship last

I’ll keep you near to my heart
I’ll always hold you dear
Even when we’re miles apart
Even when you’re here

I hope I am to you
Everything you are to me
For the friendship we have is a special indeed.
You’re in my heart forever…

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